Too far is relative, not a fixed distance
A long step is not automatically wrong. It becomes too big for you when your foot and body no longer arrive together: your foot is already far forward, back or to the side, while your weight is still on the starting foot. Then you have to pull yourself along, throw your upper body forward or bridge the gap with an unplanned movement. This reaction tells you more than the distance on the floor.
To assess this, look at a sequence you already know, for example a closed sequence in Slow Waltz. The forward or backward step, side step and closing step each have different purposes. So the steps do not have to be the same length. A particularly wide side step can create more distance than you can comfortably follow. The first step can also be too big if you place your foot far away and only move your body afterward.
Having to make a small adjustment at the end of a sequence does not tell you where the problem began. It may have started earlier. If, on the other hand, you simply need to bring your feet fully together, the explanation on closing your feet in Waltz can help. That is a different task from controlling the length of the step before it.


