The cord holds, the fingers move the shells
This guide applies to hand castanets with thumb loops, as used in Spanish dance classes. Castanets with handles and other attachment methods work differently. With thumb loops, the threaded cord forms two loops. Both support the instrument together; tightening a single loop does not replace the second one.
The loops sit on the distal phalanx of the thumb: just above the movable joint toward the nail, not at the base of the thumb. The cord should not lie across the joint crease or slip up to the nail. The shell attachments face the thumb, and their hollow insides face each other. This lets your fingers reach the outer shell without having to grip the whole instrument tightly.
You need both a secure fit and freedom of movement. A tighter cord cannot make up for a poor fit. This is different from props you actively grip, such as a Mantón with accessible grip points. Castanets are also not essential for every Flamenco exercise: you can practise a Marcaje for Flamenco Tangos without them. This guide is only about putting them on, not about finger strokes or musical sequences.

