A recommendation passes on trust, not a course commitment
When someone recommends your dance school, they are usually talking about their own experience: clear explanations, patient corrections, or a group where they found it easy to get started. This experience initially applies to that specific class. So a friend with no prior experience does not automatically need the same course as the person recommending it.
Your referral process needs to connect personal enthusiasm with a suitable offer. To do that, share a link to a specific course, not a general request like “Bring someone along sometime.” A clear description of the dance course provides the practical details, while the personal message explains why someone enjoys coming to your school.
Then distinguish between three observations: a link was shared, an interested person got in touch, and a booking was made. You cannot reliably see how often a private link has been forwarded. So a missing inquiry does not mean that someone is dissatisfied or that a referral has failed.
For organizing your dance school administration, a consistent way of assigning the inquiries you actually receive is enough to start with. This keeps the process manageable and makes it easy to include in your dance school marketing plan, without documenting your participants’ private circles of friends.

